So my girlfriend tells me her co-worker is so glad that my girlfriend is so open with her homosexuality. My first question was "is it because she was tricked by an undercover lesbian?" What compels a person to say such a thing? I don't compliment my friends for being so openly w Mexican just because they have a Mexican flag hanging from their rear view mirror.
I began to wonder if maybe I've shocked some people when I mention my girlfriend, or hint at my sexual preference in conversation. I'm not a make-up and dresses kind of girl, and I don't think it has much to do with me putting out the message that I 'm gay. I don't feel like cutting my hair short , wearing a rainbow necklace is necessary garb for me to be myself. Does this mean I have been subversive to the people around me? Do other people have anxiety about meeting someone, getting to know them as a person, becoming friends, and then having " befriender's remorse" when they find out their new chum is gay?